Erotic Art Collective Presents Paul Oughton (Hoxton/London)

BDSM and art have always walked hand in hand and with this in mind Madame Caramel created the Erotic Art Collective. The aim of this unique collective is to provide an exclusive, creative space for international artists who work within the erotic, BDSM and fetish realms. Events will include: book launches, art and photography exhibitions, performance, workshops and more.

On the 14th June the Erotic Art Collective is proud to present a Paul Oughton at the 100 Years Gallery in Hoxton. The theme of the night is Love and Rope. The venue has a bar and there will be nibbles available.

The event will take place from 7:30pm and is free entry

Paul Oughton is a self taught artist. He started to paint three years ago as a hobby in his spare time and just enjoyed splashing paint around a canvas to see what became of it. It was fun and people who saw what he was doing offered encouragement through playful banter. Paul gradually became more immersed in his new hobby and began to research known artists from the Old Masters to the Impressionists in a bid to learn about the fundamentals of painting. Practice began to yield results and Paul began to look at everything through a different set of eyes, watching for differences in colour, light and form in everything he saw. Copying some of the Impressionist’s works gave him valuable lessons from which to improve early efforts into simple pictures that people wanted to buy.

In 2013 Paul had lots of small pictures lying around and he realised he needed to get rid of them to make room for more worthy efforts so he took a Sunday market stall near Newcastle Upon Tyne close to his home and was soon selling pictures on a regular basis. Encouraged by sales and favourable comments Paul became more serious about his painting but time was limited by having to hold down a full time job. However, his work continued to sell from repeat customers and through local galleries throughout the North East. A series of acrylic paintings of Venice sold well and Paul’s reputation began to grow.

 Paul Oughton

In January 2014 it was suggested to Paul that he may wish to paint a totally new genre of pictures, that of erotic art. The subject of Fetish and BDSM was mentioned and research began into what Paul describes as “More interesting than painting water lilies and canals ! ” The result is a beautiful series of paintings showing the female Dominatrix at play and Shibari as an art form. Paul now works on a part time basis so that he can devote more time to painting and, eventually, become a full time professional artist. None of the paintings are explicit in their content but do stir the imagination of the viewer engaging them in their own narrative.

 Paul Oughton

Madame Caramel will be co-hosting this event with Miss Deviant . Paul will be offering the chance not only to buy his paintings on the night but also an opportunity to commission a custom piece. He will be offering discounts to those who are able to pay a deposit on the night.

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Chastity Mistress Foxx (United Kingdom)

my first time in chastity with Mistress Foxx. When i first opened the box i was excited, spent a bit of time working out what all the parts did and roughly sizing myself up. An hour later i decided that it was time, i cleaned up and applied a little lube then for the life of me couldn’t get myself to fit in the tube, i was so hard and so excited it took me over half an hour to get the tube fully home, i fitted the rest of the bits then locked in. At first it was quite exciting wearing it but the novelty soon wore off when i realised that was me, no masturbation until Mistress Foxx allowed me free. Later that night mistress Foxx decided my fate with a few simple bits of paper in a bowl from which i had to pick numbers for the timescale i would be locked in for. my fate ended up at 48 hours, i was excited with the prospect of now being at Mistress’s mercy. Shortly after i went to bed thinking i would get a great nights sleep.
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Sissy Martina

Just because she looks so good 🙂 Look at the daily code she made it just now.

But next time I want you completely shaven, a good sissy doesn’t have hair on her pussy or clit.

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Top ten tips for long term male chastity device wear

Baby oil

The single most difficult part of wearing the CB-3000 for me (and I imagine this would be the case for most trapped-ball devices), is the soreness it causes on my scrotum when I get involuntary erections at night. It’s a catch-22 because the device is designed not to let me orgasm and so I get hornier, which causes more involuntary erections which causes more soreness. When it’s real bad my ball sack gets red and painful and it becomes difficult to sleep comfortably because every way I turn I feel it being stretched.

It took a while to figure this out, but I realized that one of the most effective solutions is simply to rub a bit of baby oil or other absorbent cream (NOT LUBE! An exception is a thicker, water-based lube such as Babelube; just a little bit works like baby oil but stays on the skin longer. Thinner lubes like Astroglide that contain glycerin are too sticky for my tastes.) on the sore areas. In fact, doing this before bed (and after a cleaning) can even help prevent the soreness throughout the night. It works by helping the so-called A-ring (the cock-ring portion of the trapped ball device) slide more easily away from the body. If you’ve sized the device correctly, the ring is still snug enough that your testicles won’t be able to slip through, but when they get stretched due to your nightly erections (and they will), the ring won’t scrape your scrotum.

Note that doing this for your penis by placing baby oil or other moisturizers inside the tube portion of the device is a very bad idea. See tip number 1, above, for why.

Read the other 9 at: MaybeMaiMed

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Mistress Phoenix Frost (USA)

Mistress Phoenix FrostI am a highly skilled lifestyle player, who has been active in the BDSM Community since 1993. My range of expression spans the sensual to sadistic. Each scene is conducted with precision, respect and care, emphasizing the mutual BDSM interests of Top and bottom, Domina and submissive.

With years of experience comes a range of activities that I relish. But I do not attempt to confine your encounters with Me to a pre-fabricated or contrived scene. I welcome elaborate fantasies and extreme or “unusual” fetishes. My interests can be equally stirred by ardent foot worship and severe caning. I am a versatile and multi-faceted Dominant, who revels in the opportunity to play with unique individuals.

I enjoy sessions with men, women and couples who are intrigued by any level of fetishism, submission, masochism, role play and True Power Exchange. Those who have a higher level of appreciation for sophistication and finesse are best matched to My particular brand of Eastern elegance and torment. I offer keyholding and chastity as part of my training.

Mistress Phoenix Frost

Mistress Phoenix Frost

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Mistress Devlynn Desade (USA)

If you are fortunate enough to spend time with Me, you will find Me to be gorgeous, educated, intuitive, creative, vastly experienced, extremely skilled and utterly discreet. An expert with many forms of training, I am always expanding My knowledge and experiences to be able to fully realize My calling. I am a joyful sadist and humiliatrix, though masochism is not necessary in a submissive it is appreciated.

I will be training you for My use, so players of all experience are welcome. It is important however, you show me your best submissive attitude, otherwise I may not deem you worthy of My time. I think chastity is an important part of your training.

Voted best Mistress in Cincinnati

Mistress Devlynn Desade

Mistress Devlynn DeSade

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Hygiene for the man in chastity

What is not talked about in this wonderful world of chastity devices is that men basically dribble from all orifices and if left unattended it smells! Yes chaps it is true you’re just very smelly monkeys who invented soap.

When in chastity if you do not clean your device while you are in it, it will smell like a public urinal. Also the possibility of infection is probably greater unless you maintain hospital standards of hygiene.

Chastity Device Hygiene 101:

1 Always carry foam based hand sanitizer (non alcohol based preferred- if not you will find out why!).

2 Sanitise at least 3 times a day by squirting foam into end of device after urination.

3 Clean and dry with a cotton bud after foam.

4 If you don’t have a cotton bud use tissue, if its a CB600 type device poke it through the holes.

5 Morning and night, after each shower dry behind the ring, use a piece of cloth and pull it through. Being dry is important, add a dab of E45 skin cream or similar to lubricate the skin.

6 Keep the routine up, if you do not, small infections and skin lesions can become infected.

The shrinking myth.

It is said that your cock gets smaller in your device. This not actually true if it is let out on a regular basis. If you are caged long term it will accommodate to the device in a way similar to a foot in a tight shoe. A few enthusiastic device free erections will return you to your former glory! If you are a PinkDrinker the blood flow is maintained as is erection potential, you will not lose dimensions at all. Some of the component parts of the PinkDrink are used in an commercial ‘erection growth formula’, so just like a mushroom you will grow in the dark!

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Dominatrix Ruby Enraylls (United States)

I am a lifestyle kinkster (that is to say that before I was a seattle dominatrix, I as interested in kink & fetish since before I knew what it meant.) I thrive on the energy produced by such intimate encounters and I find the art of seduction in kink to be utterly delectable. Most importantly, I relish the idea of getting inside the heads of my play partners and my fantasy is to become your fantasy. More things of note about me are that I’m educated, well spoken, cultured and an unabashed hedonist.

Although I am young, I have been told that I am wise beyond my years; I speak with experience and knowledge, I am well versed in many complex subjects (business management, the art of shibari, hypnosis and the workings on the human mind to name a few) and I truly respect other people’s rights, opinions and livelihoods. In other words, you’ll be hard pressed to find another young 20-something woman quite like me.

I you can’t visit me in Seattle I offer many online services, my absolute favourite is keyholding. So contact me now and before you now it your keys are safe with me for a very long time.

Dominatrix Ruby Enraylls

Dominatrix Ruby Enraylls

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Chastity Story: The Vault – part 12

When we got back to my place, Caitlin said that we would take a shower before getting to my “p-spot.” I got into the shower just as I had the first time. I washed her down part by part. When she was done, she told me that it was time to make sure I was clean. I put my hands on the wall just as I had been directed to do the first time.
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Keyholder Madame Caramel (United Kingdom)

If you are looking for something more than our online chastity service. Stop looking and contact Madame Caramel. She is an experienced professional dominatrix and has the gift to see right in your soul to discover your deepest desires. She knows you need to be locked and denied. It is the only way you can live your life. You are lucky slave boy, she has an empty cage available with your name on it. Apply now and maybe if you have enough to offer you will be her next slave in chastity.

Madame Caramel

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